Graduate school should be challenging but doesn’t need to be overly stressful. Stress can come in many forms. Many graduate students will likely say that they experience stress in graduate school and that’s just part of being a graduate student. As a graduate dean, I hear this frequently and understand but it is time to change the paradigm from surviving to thriving.
A quick “google” search easily reveals a number of blogs, books and articles on tips for surviving even thriving in graduate school. One example is the blog entitled Graduate Student Way and a recent post with advice from three PhD students. It is worth a quick read to understand that one is not alone and the feelings are common among graduate students. It also points out that warning signs of stress should not be ignored but understood and addressed.
Other examples include an article on 12 tips for surviving and surviving in grad school, a self-published book by David Nguyen which offers some basic tips for surviving graduate school and an archived site from University of Oregon called Survive Grad School that contains some valuable information. Many Graduate Schools today offer resources and guidance for graduate student success on their websites, at orientations and workshops and through social media (e.g., UNL, UBC, GMU).
Lots of good advice and tips are available but I wish to encourage actions of a more personal nature that are often de-emphasized during graduate education. Here, I pull from the advice offered by University of California at Berkeley (UCB) regarding stress and graduate school. Please read and consider the four primary points that are encouraged: make yourself a priority, take control of your life, avoid procrastination through time management, and look for social support. These tend to go counter to the perceived “survival” nature required for graduate school and the toughness and persistence at all costs needed for success. Rather, I would argue that taking time for oneself is critical. Although a graduate student can sometimes feel as if one doesn’t have control, it is important to exercise one’s agency and control over one’s life. Further it is important to learn to say “no” and to establish some balance between graduate study and personal life. Of course, time management is crucial to academic progress and when there’s lots of work to do and deadlines, managing one’s time becomes even more important. As is a key component of the VT Graduate School’s experience, establishing a community (communities) and social networks for support are critical. These are essential within the academic setting as well as beyond the university setting.
In my welcome remarks to incoming graduate students, I share four conditions for graduate study: academic quality, time to fiddle, a baggy idea of truth, and a sense of community. I encourage the graduate students to reflect upon these throughout their graduate study and to realize that failure is a part of the learning process. I also encourage them to work hard and to play as well. To thrive in graduate school is to enjoy the challenge and to pursue opportunities as they present themselves.
One additional thought. Keep a sense of humor because it helps to keep one grounded and attentive to the richness of the graduate experience. Visit PhD comics.
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Reading this helped. Yes, graduate life doesnt have to be overly stressful. Thanks for sharing, and for being there for students when we seek help from the graduate school.
I really agree with this perspective. Graduate school should certainly be challenging and require students to expand the limits of what they believe they are capable of. That being said, graduate education should be undertaken to reach the goals that a student has for themselves. It is their education. I also appreciated the reminder to take time for one’s self. I have always been much more productive when I am approaching a challenge with a clear head and enough sleep.
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