27 Jun ’14
Development in a wholistic sense
When I arrived to Sri Lanka I was weak and feverish and had to stay
in bed for a few days until I was able to pop back up and enjoy the life
and place I had just flown to. I slept and zombied around for days at the
meditation center in Moratuwa while the class went out and attended
lectures, met people and saw sights. The group plan was then to travel to
a village in Polonaruwa, at which point I stayed behind to recover and had
five days of unstructured time until I planned to take a train to Kandy to meet
up with the group.
After one more night at the meditation center and the following night
up the road at the Sarvodaya headquarters, I was picked up by a rather
wealthy family friend named Krishnan who lives about thirty minutes away
in Colombo, and spent three days with him until catching up with the
group in Kandy. I was so excited to finally see things outside of the street
I had been living on. During my time of transition from Moratuwa, to
Colombo, to the train ride to Kandy, I learned much about community and
development through observation and talking with Krishnan.
Instead of seeing Sri Lanka as a point on the line of upward slope
of international development, comparing it to America and other nations
and rating it in a hierarchal way, I have opted to putting emphasis not on
this plot-line thinking, but on thinking about Sri Lanka in a more wholistic
way, made up of inclusive, interacting parts. It was hard for me to gain
any perspective on Sri Lanka during my first few days here other than
through my interactions with the people at the meditation center, like Tula
who was my loving mother for days. I immediately saw how personal and
caring Sri Lankan people are and that belief has proved true for
everywhere I have been here. My first couple of days actually alive in Sri
Lanka were a transition from the Sarvodaya Headquarters in moratuwa to
living the life of the 1% and seeing Colombo through a variety of
perspectives, one of them being Krishnan’s perspective of living on and
by a wealth of money. Monetary wealth can be so blinding I think because
it seems as though it can easily and quickly have the effect of cutting the
wealthy man off from growing and progressing and opening up their mind
to other paradigms the world and the areas near them have to offer. It’s as
if once someone gains enough monetary wealth to live beyond
comfortably on, their paradigm, wherever it is at that point in their life could close off easily, leaving them feeling entitled to judge and complain
and close their mind to certain new experiences. It’s also easy for me to
think that once someone reaches a point of nearly absurdly comfortable
wealth and starts sticking their nose up at things, then their paradigm can
digress even more over time rather than open up. Once the chase for
money begins, if the goal is solely the chase for money, the perspective of
the chaser narrows and narrows on this one goal while blocking out
others.
My perspective of Colombo through Krishnan’s eyes was limited
as it was indeed a perspective of the 1%. He was so nice and helpful and
drove me around to eat and drink and see sights and give me itinerary for
three days, and the whole time I thought he was great and nice but there
was still something that kept me from feeling a genuine compassion
towards him, and lending myself fully to him, because he was such a
double agent. But the thing is, that even if he weren’t the one in the space
of flows, with screens, moving virtual money that becomes very real once
it lands in an account, someone else would be that person. It is very
interesting comparing the feelings that I got from people in Moratuwa,
who most likely do not have excess monetary wealth, but have wealth in
other ways, through compassion and giving, to the feelings that I got from
Krishnan.
During my stay in Moratuwa I went skateboarding through the
streets. Everyone I encountered while skateboarding through moratuwa
knows their neighbors and hangs out in the streets and at the end of their
driveways, stops to talk to others while walking or driving home from
work. I saw community everywhere. There was a wealth of it. A wealth
much different than the kind that some think of back in America. And I
have noticed a trend that one sense of wealth can sacrifice the other kind.
When you know your neighbors personally, you care about them and are
willing to help them out. When I asked Krishnan if he knew his neighbors,
he said no and that people in his high rise apartment building don’t really
interact beyond the passing “hi.” At one point I was in a full elevator going
down to the lobby and nobody said a word the whole time. It felt much
like America, and it was a long elevator ride. This was such a stark
contrast from everything else I have experienced in Sri Lanka, with people
going out of their way to make friendly conversation and help out.
In moratuwa, some kids chased me down on my skateboard and beckoned me down their driveway until the gravel opened up into a front
yard area between multiple homes and I looked to see a huge pick up
cricket game going on before me. I couldn’t speak with the children but
they were so happy to see me there watching them play their sport. They
were showing me their culture. It was the next day that I was standing in
the silent high rise elevator. One thing I think of after this is that wealth
disparity and what one may consider “development” on the line graph
model can come with great sacrifices of community, wholesomeness,
inclusiveness and genuine experience.
-Eli Archer
27 Jun ’14
An Encounter at the Airport
We have reached the end of this trip, and throughout our time in Sri Lanka, there was an experience that I had before arriving that I can’t help but
wonder about.
During our seven-hour layover in the airport in Doha, Qatar, my fellow cohort members and I did random things to entertain ourselves. In addition to
eating and finding something to do on our iPads to kill time, some got creative and conducted a small work out session and a couple others colored in
pictures on ripped out pages from coloring books. I looked farther down the seating area and noticed Michael talking to a foreigner. I decided to jump
in the conversation. The man that Michael was talking to looked our age, was dressed in western clothing – a polo, jeans, and sneakers – unlike many of
the people at the airport dressed in white robes and a red and white head scarf. There was a huge language barrier between us, so we had his laptop
and Michael’s iPad on Google translate to use if we really couldn’t get a message across.
His name was Munir, and he was 20 years old, born in Iraq, is currently studying dentistry in Russia, and will return to Iraq because his family needs
him, even though he does not want to go back to Iraq, since the conditions there are pretty harsh. Michael and I talked to him about America, and we
compared differences between Iraq and America. We tried to get to know him as well. One question we asked in particular, which seemed like a pretty
normal question to ask and comfortable to answer, made Munir uncomfortable. We asked him “What is your religion?” And he told us “I don’t have a
religion.” And laughed. I would have believed it, but I guess thought that we knew that he was lying. He then asked “What religion do you think I am?”
and Michael shrugged and said “I don’t know. Christian?” And Munir smiled and shook his head. He said “I don’t want to say out loud.” We shared
an awkward laugh, and he eventually told us that he was Muslim. But the way he said it was in a manner similar to someone in American coming out
to his friends as being a homosexual. It seemed to me that he was scared to tell us that he was a Muslim. I had a feeling that it was because he knew
we were American and that we would judge him negatively, since American media doesn’t portray Muslims in the most positive manner. We assured
him that it was okay for him to tell us and that we didn’t care what religion he was. We were just curious.
Throughout the rest of our conversation, there were many other seemingly normal questions Michael and I asked him, but again, he had said “I don’t
want to say out loud. There are people around.” And when he did answer some questions, he looked around to make sure there were no security
guards around, or anyone whom he could get in trouble with. When we had to go to our gate, Michael decided that the three of us should take a
picture, so he quickly snapped one on his phone and sent it to Munir on Facebook. Munir asked with a concerned tone, “Is this public or private?” I
imagined at this point that he wanted to be sure that it was private. Michael showed him on his phone that it was sent through a private message.
I have never met someone like this – someone who seems to not be allowed to say certain things out loud. Someone who seemed to be living in fear. He
looked so normal, and Michael and I were able to deal with the language barrier to learn about where he comes from, but what I learned more from
the way he acted than from the relatively few words what he managed to communicate to us. I don’t know much about how the Iraqi people are
treated, but I know that it is in a way that made Munir afraid to disclose some information to us, though I am sure that there was no harm in telling us
anything. We were students with a passion for learning, just curious about the kind of world Munir came from. We were not going to use anything he
told us in a destructive manner, and we definitely wouldn’t have treated or viewed him any differently. I could tell just from our conversation that he was
a good person, and I respected him.
I am writing about this experience almost two weeks later, and I remember so many small details of it because it has stuck with me throughout my
entire trip in Sri Lanka. I don’t know anything about the Iraqi culture, but I saw something so striking through this encounter with Munir that will stick
with me for a while. When you read a culture, you can read it through people just by the way they talk and act. You can see it in how they react to the
question you ask or the way you act in certain situations. I don’t know a lot, but it makes me wonder how many people could be living in fear like
Munir seemed to be.
-Kristine Mapili
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