In the article I read about relationships, the author talks about the main issues in relationships, which is keeping the romance alive with your partner. Really hearing him talk about this is know surprise, what is a relationship without romance? I mean of course you need to be best friends with your partner, but romance is what keeps the relationships strong. Some suggestions that the author talks about to keep the romance is making sure to still look good for your partner. If you don’t care about how you look around them your partner will just think that you just don’t care about them anymore. By looking nice for your partner you will create a better romantic life with your partner. The author also mentioned taking your partner out and by out I mean take him or her out on a date every now and then, being around your family all the time makes for very little alone time with your partner and that alone time means a lot to keep the communication good between your partner. It doesn’t even have to be that expensive, just make sure you both get out of the house and away from other family members. The last thing that the author talks about is always making your partner laugh. Laughing is a very big part in the relationship, by making your partner laugh it causes you both to connect on a much better level, rather than being serious all the time. All of these are good points that the author brings to attention. I also think surprising your partner at work or maybe just with a presents makes the relationship even better, everyone like presents and everyone loves to be surprised by someone they love. It was easy for me to choose to talk about this article because I am in a very good and healthy relationship.
After reading the authors views on how to fix relationships it got me thinking of some suggestions that I feel could help benefit a relationship from failing. The three ones the author mentioned where definitely big. But some people could also argue those suggestions the author said, like when he mentioned going out on dates. What if they don’t have the money to go out to a restaurant? The author could argue that he also stated that you and your partner really need to just get out of the house. But then someone could argue that the way there schedule is they don’t have the time, to me I think people just make up way to many excuses when they could stop with all the excuses and just change up there schedule to spend time with your partner. He also mentions making your partner laugh to keep the romance alive. People could argue that its hard to be cheerful when you have to work all the time, really you should always be cheerful when you get to be with your partner. You should always want to make your partner happy and get them to laugh. The other thing the author mentions is looking good for your man or women, there really should be no excuse to not look good for your partner, your never to tired to look good for the person you love. Really any suggestions anyone tells a couple or any suggestions a couple reads about could be argued, but all and all it comes down to actually trying out the suggestions the couple gets and not making up excuses not to try them. To me if you really love your partner you should be willing to do anything to fix the relationship if it is going down the wrong path.